Keep ‘Em Smiling: Fun Things for Wedding Guests While You’re Off Posing Like Royalty

Deborah Colleen Rose

5/31/20253 min read

Your wedding is a celebration of love, laughter, and maybe a few happy tears—and while you and your partner are off making magic with the photographer (and her army of lenses), your guests are... waiting.

And let’s be real: awkward small talk, hunting for hors d’oeuvres, and pretending to love the sound of a string quartet tuning up is not the vibe you want.

So let’s fix that. Let’s give your guests an experience—not a waiting room.

Here’s how to keep them entertained, engaged, and grinning while you’re busy making forever look good:

1. Wedding Bingo or Icebreaker Cards

Turn mingling into a mission.
Create bingo cards with prompts like:

  • “Find someone who’s been married 20+ years”

  • “Talk to someone who flew in from out of state”

  • “Take a selfie with someone wearing blue”

Or place playful table tents with questions like:

  • “What’s your best marriage advice in 5 words or less?”

  • “Who was your first celebrity crush?”

  • “What’s the weirdest wedding you’ve ever attended?”

🌀Why it works: Guests who don’t know each other suddenly have a reason to talk—and laugh. It shifts the energy from waiting to connecting.

2. Live Entertainment

Think roaming magician, caricature artist, or a guy with a guitar and a good sense of humor. Or… want to go big? A stilt walker or living statue.

🌀Why it works: It creates little pockets of wow moments. And while people may not remember the table settings, they’ll remember the guy juggling apples and quoting Shakespeare.

3. DIY Snack or Drink Station

Popcorn bar, cotton candy, mini donut wall, or a “Pimp Your Prosecco” station with fresh fruits, edible flowers, and syrups.

🌀Why it works: People love to play with their food—especially when it’s cute and Instagrammable. And no one’s cranky with a snack in their hand.

4. Interactive Guest Book Area

Set up a photo booth or Polaroid station where guests can snap a pic and write a message on the back. Or leave vintage typewriters for guests to type out their “love lessons” to you.

🌀Why it works: Keeps people busy, and you’ll end up with keepsakes full of personality (and probably a few hilarious spelling errors).

5. Lawn Games or Lounge Zones

Cornhole, giant Jenga, Connect Four, ring toss—classic fun that doesn’t need a rule book. And for older guests or introverts, cozy lounge corners with shade, fans, and soft music are a welcome retreat.

🌀Why it works: Movement keeps people relaxed and engaged. A good game of Jenga might even spark some friendly rivalry between the in-laws.

6. Kids’ Activity Zone

Crayons, puzzles, bubbles, coloring pages with your faces on them—kids will stay occupied, and their parents will thank you with their whole souls.

🌀Why it works: A distracted child is a happy child. A happy child is a peaceful reception.

7. Custom Quirky Touches

  • Set up a “Wishing Tree” where guests can hang blessings or advice

  • Create a “Love Story Timeline” with key milestones in your relationship

  • Offer a “Guess the First Dance Song” contest

  • Add conversation starter scrolls in vintage bottles

🌀Why it works: These little details give your guests something to do and something to feel. They create connection through curiosity.

8. Intuitive Entertainment: The Unexpected Crowd Favorite

Give your guests something totally unforgettable—an experience that surprises and delights.

Set up a cozy corner or whimsical tent for intuitive readings that leave people saying,
“Wait, how did she know that about me?!”

You can offer:

  • ✍️ Handwriting analysis that reveals personality quirks, love styles, or hidden strengths

  • 💋 Lip print (kiss) readings—guests kiss a card and get a flirty, fun reading

  • 🔮 Card pulls or intuitive mini-readings—quick insights with deep meaning

🌀Why it works: It’s personal, it’s playful, and it creates instant connection. Even the skeptics get intrigued—and suddenly, strangers are bonding over their soul colors and secret talents.

“I came for the vows, stayed for the wine, and left with a psychic telling me I need to start my own business. Wild.”

💫 P.S. Want this at your wedding?
We offer live intuitive entertainment that gets people talking, laughing, connecting—and sometimes crying (the good kind).
💌 Ask about our wedding guest experiences featuring lip print readings, handwriting analysis, and prophetic entertainment with a personal twist.

Final Thought:

This isn’t just a wedding. It’s a whole experience.

Your guests came to celebrate your love, not stare at empty chairs and sip lukewarm tea.
By offering something whimsical, warm, or downright weird (in the best way), you show them love while they wait for love to return from the photo shoot.

Because when the wedding party strolls back in—bouquets in hand, heels slightly sinking into the grass—you want to walk into a crowd that’s already buzzing with joy.

Not bored. Not wilted. But smiling. Lit up. Ready to dance.